Hi Tiffanychri and welcome,
I am so very sorry that we somehow missed your post. Believe me, it was not intentional.
While we don't recommend specific cameras, we can point out some that best meet your needs. In addition to the Sony H3, consider a superzoom such a Panasonic FZ7 or FZ8, a Canon S2 or S3 or the FujiFilm S6000 (which starts wide angle and is good in low light). All cameras mentioned, except the S6000, have image stabilization, which I consider important for shooting at long telephoto. On the other hand, the other cameras do not do as well in low light so, as always, you need to pick a camera that meets the majority of your needs.
All these cameras have a viewfinder, which I find critical when framing shots using a long zoom.
dpreview is a good place to compare camera features:
http://www.dpreview.com/reviews/sidebyside.aspYou've selected that your email address be made invisible, and it is. But, as a forum administrator, I can view it so I will notify you that there now is a reply here.
Again, sorry for the delay.